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Casey and I made trick-or-treat bags to hand out at Halloween this year. This is her first year being the candy giver instead of a trick-or-treater Here is an example of what went into the bags.

( Click here for a few more pictures )
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So, one of Michael's roomates is a very strict and religious Mormon attending BYU. Michael was able to talk to him tonight, and the roomate is very uncomfortable with the prospect of me staying over. Mike and I already made plans for me to come over early next week on my days off, but after that I'm going to need a hotel room every time I come over.
So I sat down and paid my bills tonight. Somehow my phone bill has jumped (again), and I can't figure out why. The actual bill looks like greek to me, so I'm going to have to call a phone monkey and harass them into telling me why my $50 phone bill has become $117. My first guess was that I had talked to Michael enough that I had used up my minutes, but it doesn't look that way. And he ought to qualify as long distance and I'm not seeing any charges for that either. It doesn't make sense, because other than talking to him I'm not doing anything with the phone I don't normally do.
After I get my current round of bills paid, and after the charge for my sisters birthday present goes through, I'll have just over $100 left. On that I will need to buy a greyhound ticket to return home with next week, buy new shoes because the lining has completely separated inside, pay a medical bill, and the list goes on. What it comes down to is that I really just won't have enough, and I'll be lucky if I manage to sort it to the point that I don't overdraft again. Michael and I are trying to figure out how this will work, and it's all just turning out more complicated than it ought to be. He makes more money than me, but he also has more bills and he needs his savings in case his company lays him off this winter. We'll find a way to make it work, it's just very stressful and him having a roomate who insists I not stay over complicates everything.
The worst part is the roomate only stays over a few nights a month. If his college found out he was living at the apartment he would be in trouble anyway, because it's not BYU approved. So me staying over sometimes wouldn't likely make it worse. Michael is nice about it because the guy is his friend, and also because he separated from the church recently enough that he remembers what it's like. I've been separated from the church for more than five years, and I don't remember that well. To me it just feels like his roomate is trying to enforce his belief system on us, however unintentional and well-meaning. I don't like pandering to a random stranger, and with how slow the hotel business is in the winter I frankly can't afford to.
I don't need suggestions, we have a few other options and we're just going to do our best to make things work. It just annoys me that I finally have a boyfriend with his own apartment and I can't stay over whenever I want. It would be easier on us both and save us both money. Michael says that his apartment lease comes up for renewal in November, and he's hoping to move out of Utah altogether. Ideally, if we're still together then, he would try to move closer to me. And even if he can't afford to move then, he is pretty sure the troublesome roomate will not be renewing his lease this time anyhow. So either way, we hopefully won't have to deal with this for more than 2 months.
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